The Story Beneath the Ashes
Hi, I’m Asheton - a trained somatic relationship and intimacy practitioner (i.e. Sexologist), event creator, and poetic rebel living and working in South Carolina.
Before all of this, I spent almost a decade in corporate America, learning what I needed to walk away - from what leadership should and shouldn’t look like, to how people are often asked to abandon their bodies to survive.
Since then, I’ve devoted my life to creative expression, community care, and meaningful advocacy work - with trauma-informed lens and a fiercely tender heart.
Oh - and I’m also the founder of the fashion icon RockerBelles.
Launched in 2016, RockerBelles was a Rocker Chic Boutique known for its specially curated, hand-picked pieces - a celebration of grit, glamour, and unapologetic fire. It became more than fashion: it was a living, breathing aesthetic of rebellion, softness, and soul.
One might say I’m an old-fashion heart with rebellious ways - someone who still writes letters, believes in eye contact, and honors the sacred in everyday life. My work, my art, and my advocacy all flow from that place: grounded, sensual, and soul-led.
Embodiment — the body as a compass, story keeper, and sacred ground
Boundaries as love — clear, intentional, relational
Creative devotion — expression as healing, fire, and legacy
Sacred rage — honoring the heat that fuels justice and truth
Softness as strength — tenderness without apology
Presence over performance — realness over roles
Integrity over urgency — aligned pace, not forced production
Reverence for the weird — celebrating what doesn’t “fit” the mold…the Boujee & Unusual
Connection over visibility — truth > trend
Feminine grit — beauty with backbone, lipstick with teeth
Honoring the Sacred Masculine — presence, protection, and purpose in conscious balance with the wild feminine
Stay Wild — as a prayer, a promise, and a practice
